![]() ![]() It harks back to our lizard brain programming and desire to survive and pass on our DNA. Subs (and a lot of women who don’t identify with the BDSM world) are typically drawn to men with these characteristics naturally. They probably score highly on all three of the dark triad tendencies narcissism, psychopathy and Machiavellianism. When people hear the word dominant, they think of the man who is powerful, high status, successful, controlling, domineering, assertive, a perfectionist, who exudes confidence, wants things done their way, and lacks empathy and warmth. I would like to be more assertive, but it doesn’t need to come with the brashness or lack of regard for others that these men often have.) (They do say you subconsciously want for yourself the traits you find irritating in others, and I do relate to this. The stereotypical alpha male is something I find both intimidating and dislikable. And their lack of willingness to discuss anything more than superficial topics doesn’t appeal. I find men difficult to relate to at the best on times, not being into football or sport or drinking myself. I do not get along with loud, arrogant, self-centred or overly controlling men. It’s a collection of thoughts that will hopefully give you a sense of my modus operandi, and may help you decide if you want to find a Dom of your own, or be a Dom. It isn’t meant to be a guide or an instruction manual on how to do things. ![]()
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